I had tried everything that I could think of after our wild fight to get my girlfriend back. But it wasn't until I adopted a game plan that things started going my way.

Being angry and confused, I tried everything that I could think of to make up and get back together with my girlfriend. I tried phoning. I sent text messages. I cluttered up her e-mail account. But - guess what? All this just made her more resistant to getting back together and caused her to pull farther away. It became increasingly clear that this was not going to help me win back my ex this way.

No I has to change tactics and fast. I had to stop just reacting. Here is how I learned the steps to get back together with my girlfriend.